Two Grandma’s walk Lois to the park for a little sliding and climbing.
Hi all– This week the Grandma Team (that’s my Mom and me) trekked up to San Francisco to see the SF crop of grand-kids. Mom met the “O” cousins for the first time– that’s little Otto and littler Oscar– her newest great grand-guys!! It was the best!
It made me think of my dear pie making Grandma Rose, born in 1903. I’m her grand-girl, now grandma to 8 small people who will likely live until 2103– and will be probably be grandparents themselves. It’s a chain of Grandmas over the centuries…
Crafty Kid Fun Halloween morning at the local community center.
And it made me think about grand-mothering. It’s such a sweet vocation. I’ve heard a grandmother is a little bit parent, a little bit teacher and a little bit best friend. I really want to be that for those 8 kids who call me Grandma.
So I’m collecting ideas:
#1. Create an Art Cupboard in a spare closet– so grand-kids can paint & glitter to their hearts content
#2. Send secret code messages
#3. Build a marble maze together
#4. Make an erupting volcano with clay, vinegar & baking soda!!
#5. Let everyone make their own small pizza for dinner
#6. Teach your grands how to play rummy fo high stakes M&Ms
#7. Have a two person book club– get into what they are reading!!
#8. A Treasure Hunt with clues that send them around the house collecting ingredients for a banana split.
#9. Make & paint popsicle stick picture frames & insert their photo
#10. Have a Scavenger Hunt at the library (a book with a mouse on the cover, a Dr. Seuss book…)
#11. Make Orange Soda floats on a hot day
#12. Keep an “Art Gallery” of grand-kid artwork
#13. Write letters to family members, stamp & mail them
#14. Create a Fairy Garden
#15. Take an umbrella walk when it rains
#16. Toast marshmallows in the fireplace
#17. Interview each other & video it on your phone
#18. Draw & discuss your family tree
#19. Write a short play & act it out for the parents
#20. Show them photos of when you (or their parent) were children
#21. Make crazy paper hats (with feathers? pom poms? fake flowers??…)
#22. Build a bird feeder
#23. Wrap each other in toilet paper to play mummies
#24. Draw a giant maze with sidewalk chalk
#25. Plant a vegetable garden
#26. Go to an art museum and sit and copy a painting
#27. Learn to play the recorder together
#28. Have a Brownie Bake-off!
#29. See who can build the tallest Lego tower
#30. My grand-girls favorite– take an evening flashlight hike around the block
Surprise attack hug from loveable Lois
“Grandmothers are moms with lots of frosting.” –author unknown
“Grandma always made you feel she had been waiting to see just you all day and now the day was complete.” –Marcy DeMaree
“Grandmas don’t just say “that’s nice” — they reel back and roll their eyes and throw up their hands and smile. You get your money’s worth out of grandmas.” –author unknown
So here’s a few more pics of our week of grand-mothering. Can’t wait to do it all over again…
“We should all have one person who knows how to bless us despite the evidence, Grandmother was that person to me.” –Phyllis Theroux
“Grandmother — a wonderful mother with lots of practice.” –author unknown
“If nothing is going well, call your grandmother.” ~Italian Proverb
Lois helping out with the morning Cranberry Bread
Cranberry Bread– Make it over and over in the fall– Great toasted for breakfast!!
Here’s the recipe:
The Best Orange Cranberry Bread
‘If I had known how wonderful it would be to have grandchildren, I’d have had them first.” ~Lois Wyse
Thanks Bunches Ani and Brian for taking us in and taking care of us so well. And thanks Mom for being an intrepid travel buddy!! It was the best having you there– rocking sweet Oscar and chatting away with Little Lois. You truly are an amazing Mom and Grandma.
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Wonderful post and tribute to Grandmas! I’ll be referring to your list often, I’m sure. I love your multi-generational pictures. So happy you had a fun time with your mom and grandchildren, Rhonda!
Hi Marcia– It was so good to all be together. You’re going to love having grand-kids! think of all the books you can introduce them to!! hugs friend.
Beautiful family!
Oh gosh– thanks Cindy!! Loved your recent pelican pictures!! Amazing! xox
Love all of this! ❤️ Beautiful and inspiring!
Hi Carol– don’t you love being a grandma to someone?? So easy to love those little kids! xox
So sweet!
Thanks RobbyeFaye!! Loved your A Sothern Season book review– sounds fun! hugs!
Thank you so much, I appreciate it!
Blessings~💖
How lovely for little Lois! Great things to do!
HI Sophie!! Yep we love that little Lois– so glad for the chance to spend a week with her! hugs from here!!
One of my favorites of your blog posts…love you were able to take this trip with your mom…I have done several things on your list but sure appreciate all the new ideas…we are truly blessed…to still have our terrific moms and our beautiful grand children! ❤️❤️❤️
You are so right Debi. Most of my friends don’t have their mothers still. My favorite part of the trip was the way Ani and my Mom would have long conversations while I was doing dishes or diapering kids– so sweet to be all together. I’m sure you know what I mean– love the way you ‘Grandmother.” hugs Debi!
I love the way you Grandmother too! You are a blessing to your family and friends!!!
Rhonda, what a precious endearing post! I see so much love between you all and your grandchildren are so sweet!!!! I can’t wait to be a Mimi or Meme. I haven’t decided what I want to be called yet. I called my grandma Nanny but it doesn’t seem to fit me. I must make the cranberry bread too, yum! Hugs dear friend❤️😊
Hey Mary– you’ll be the best Mimi– you really know how to love your people!! It is the sweetest. Just jumped over to yoru blog– so many pretty posts– loved the fall trees in your photos!!! How did I get so behind on reading blogs?? Been busy, but it was really fun to catch up with you. Made me wish we could sit down over lunch and really catch up!! hugs!
Awe, Rhonda, you say the sweetest things! It’s easy to fall behind on keeping up with blogs. I am trying to catch up with posts and comments. I hope you and your family ha e a blessed week!❤️❤️❤️
So very sweet. I love the list of ideas. We took cardboard yesterday and made a car ramp with tunnels and roads. It was fun! I’ll have to come to this post when I’m looking for something fun to do! 💖
That sounds so inventive and fun Jenny– making a note for when the grand-girls are here! Your kids are blessed. xo
Rhonda this is an incredible post – and your photos are so endearing. I love the surprise hug “attack” from Lois. So glad that you and your mom got up to visit the grandchildren. I am so moved by your ideas to be their grandmother, best friend and teacher. Sitting at an art museum and copying the painting – wow. Hugs my friend. I love this and your blog.
Debbie
HI Debbie!! thanks (again!) for your kind encouragement. Interesting to read about your fall and your week to reflect. You always have so much to say. hugs hugs friend.
oh how I miss cranberry bread!
Wish I could mail you a loaf Brena!! How do you all do Thanksgiving there?? We would travel to meet with the other missionary families from all over the province– always a sweet day together. Hope you are well and thankful and celebrating there… hugs!
Such beautiful pictures! I’m sure you had a lovely time traveling with your mom and your grandkids are the cutest! Great activity list! Also that orange cranberry bread looks really yummy!😊 hugs
HI Ursula! Loved the time with my Mom and kids (I think you know what I mean!). hugs from here!
What a beautiful post Rhonda. I love your creative ideas, especially the clay volcano!
Ha ha ha! Did that with my son decades ago– haven’t got up the courage to do it again with the grand-kids yet! Enjoying yoru book reviews Brigid!! xox
Just lovely!! Little Lo is SO photogenic. Her little face just brightens my computer screen!!
Hi Jenny– ha ha! You’re so kind. I’m imagining you baking in your new kitchen!! Are you doing Thanksgiving?? All you need is a 12 foot table in that space!! hugs hugs friend!
Another beautiful post! I love your ideas…i”m keeping them in mind for my next visit (although I think glitter might be on the “banned” list at my daughter’s house! And that quote about having grandkids first, lol
You and your Mom look so much alike it’s uncanny!! 🙂
Hey Mollie– I know about the glitter ban. I gave Lois a glitter tutu (fancy– from the dollar store!) last she was here and it got glitter everywhere!! (ended up in the trash!). What are you doing for Thanksgiving?? Are you the cook?! hugs from here!!
From the photos, I don’t know who had more fun…the two of you or the little ones. 😀
ha ha! It was such a sweet time for me watching my Mom with the kids! And– loved your cooking class post!! Saving that beautiful recipe!! hugs Karen!
You have such a beautiful family! So many fun activities you’ve got planned for those lucky grand kiddos of yours. ♡ I’ve never tried orange cranberry bread but that looks delicious! Thanks for sharing, Rhonda! ♡
So kind Hunida! thanks. So funny– we both have the same new car!! Happy driving! xox
Oh my goodness these photos just melted my heart. Seriously, how sweet.
I’m in love with your list. These are easy things that go a long way. You know I’m on board with the 2 person book club. I also really like the showing pictures idea. I loved visiting my grandma and going through all of her photo albums. You have some lucky grandkids!
Hey Lacey– I had a grandma with a picture album at hand too! And you are the queen of fun things with your kids– their projects!! I’d like to see you list. What are you all doing for Thanksgiving?? Are you the cook? Hope it’s a wonderful one! hugs from here!
I don’t have a list really. The kids sort of guide all of our projects. If they come up with something they want to try I try to accommodate it. Maybe I should think of a list though. . . .
We have so much family that we are usually at someone else’s house showing up with a few veggies sides. The last few years we’ve been sick on or around Thanksgiving. I’m praying for health this season!
Yep– hope you all stay healthy and the kids have a great day– I’m imagining lots of cousins around! Happy weekend Lacey!! xox
Your posts always just warm my heart!!! What a wonderful time with your mom and sweet little Lois and Oscar! You are one amazing grandma. I love all your ideas- and I know they will too. You are just the best, Rhonda!!! Thanks for sharing 🙂 xo
Hey Mackenzie!! You have quite a ways to wait– but being a grandma is the best!! ANd– it’s so cool that you are tutoring 3rd graders– such a fun age!! I’m sure they love you! hugs hugs!
Hugs right back! ❤ ❤
Love that picture of your mom and Lois. Look at those smiles. Oscar is getting so big already. Love your definition of a grandmother.
Hi Lisa!! thanks! It was really sweet to get to see my Mom have time with the kids. –And loved your picture book reviews– off to track don Anna at the Art Museum! thanks. xox
It’s a cute one.
Oh My Goodness! So Much Fun! I love your list too! I can wait a bit yet to be a grandma (ahem, my kids are not quite adults) but I know it’ll be the best! – Kat
You’re right Kat! We’re all going to be together up in Ojai for Thanksgiving and I can’t wait to have those kids at arm’s length! What are you doing for Thanksgiving?? Are you the cook? hugs friend!
Oh Rhonda, isn’t being a grandma the best?!?!
Lovely post.
I marvel at my own heart – being able to love these grands so much.
Cate 💞
It shows Cate — in your facebook posts. That Penny has such an adorable personality!! I’m glad you’re documenting it all to show her when she’s 16! I agree, they are the sweetest part or our lives. hugs from here!
Oh Rhonda! You have the best ideas, for moms, grandmas or greats!! I’m going to add these to the list of “must-do’s”!!
Hey Jenni! I’m always taking notes on the things you do with your kids & grand-kids! Aren’t those little guys the best??! xo Friend.
This was wonderful! Thanks for sharing!! God bless your grandchildren